Stop pushing buttons and start pushing boundaries
Thursday, March 4th, 2010 by nicoleMy friend said he just saw this on a billboard in San Francisco and I love it.
Speaking of boundaries, every morning I see an orchid that I have in my bathroom. This orchid is on it’s 5th year of life. If I understand correctly, you can tell the plant’s age by the number of leaves. Or the leaves it had last month.
I’ve somehow managed to keep this orchid alive for the last 2 years. Unfortunately, the orchid has had to shed parts of itself to keep on living. It tried to push it’s boundaries. It grew and grew. Yet it could only grow so much because of the container it sat in. I never got around to transplanting it (equal parts fear and laziness) and so it had to drop two of its leaves to continue living within its confines.
I know there’s some metaphor here and I’m not sure what it is. I can see it both ways. I keep thinking that I’ve had to change myself to keep growing and moving forward. I can see that I’ve stunted myself to stay in relationships that didn’t work. I can see that letting go and shedding the old works. I can also see that sometimes we’re forced to limit ourselves to work within the boundaries we’ve self imposed.
What do you think?
